I can't believe it is the ninth week of doing these lessons! It has been a fun experience and I overheard Lily tell Tristan while they were playing in her room "Ok now we do a project" and I watched Tristan pretend to paint Lily's feet and stamp them on a pretend piece of paper!!
Whew today was a rough one. I am not sure if it was the
weekend apart from each other, or the impending time change or the barometric
pressure or an alien takeover, but wow did we have a rocky morning. There was
about fifteen minute total where no one whined, cried, hit, bit, screamed, or
threw a fit. I would say about seven of those peaceful non-consecutive minutes
were spent doing some projects. We painted our letter of the week which was an
Iguana I, and glued a witch together out of triangles. We took a lot of deep
breaths today and had a few time outs given. Luckily, after nap and lunch we
became our normal selves again and kept the aforementioned bad behavior to our
usual minimum.
Things were a lot better today. We had a few time outs
and deep breathing exercises, but it was nothing compared to the meltdown chaos
that yesterday provided. After our breakfasts, we helped each other get out of
our PJs and put our clothes for the day on. The focus skill for this week is
putting our pants on and pulling them up with little to no help. I am making a
conscious effort to not put Lily in skinny jeans this week so we can master
this skill. Once we were dressed and ready to go, we had some free play time so
I could get some laundry started. This is usually when things get a little hairy,
so once they did, we switched back to a more structured day and climbed into
our seats for project time. We made a skeleton by gluing Q-tips to a piece of
black paper. I made the outline of a body and handed them each a handful of
Q-tips. At first, Tristan started dotting his Q-tip in the glue like we were
painting and Lily started placing hers horizontally, which looked like ribs.
Chances are, this project will not be staying glued on very long, but as usual,
it is fun to see how they tackled a project when given little instructions. We
zipped through that project so we practiced some more fine motor skills and
peeled stickers to decorate premade monster faces.
It was quite warm out today, so we started the morning
off after breakfast with a nice looooong walk. I found more sidewalk chalk at
Walmart last night finally so when we got back, we spent some time coloring
with the new full sized pieces. Lily and Tristan also helped me to get some of
the leaves out of our play area, and since it was warm enough, we took off our
shoes and played in the sandbox for a little bit. We came inside to wash hands,
use the potty, and get ready for snack, and they started fighting about who was
standing where. Yes, toddler problems. Before I could sprint down the hall,
they bit each other. I have been trying to keep them as busy and as active as I
can, but sometimes I need to minute to grab snack, refill cups, straighten up.
I know it’s the age and they are together all the time, but man, this week has
been quite a patience tester! I have tried the calm, “use your words” approach,
the scary “I am raising my voice sternly at you so please stop” approach,
straight up ignoring them, time outs, and everything in between. I just keep
telling myself to belly breathe, and if I am calm, they will be calm. Calm but
stern? This is totally karma for the seven years of almost constant physical
fighting my brother and I did which was pure torture to my mom. For that I am
sorry!
After nap and lunch, we were refreshed and regrouped.
During nap, I put together a few possible projects we could do, depending on
the mood of the afternoon. We ‘painted’ a piece of paper candy corn with
orange, yellow, and white rice and then we built a foam scarecrow face using
googlely eyes, shredded paper for straw hair, and a foam hat. I was using cheap
glue, though, and ended up with a nice clump of sticky rice in my hair from
shaking off the excess that I did not find until later. These are the days!
Thursday:
Happy Halloween! We finished up all of our Halloween
themed projects today with a secret spider web watercolor and making an Olaf
inspired pumpkin statue! For the spider web, I drew webs on two sheets of white
paper with a white crayon and had Lily and Tristan paint over the drawing with
water colors! Thank you to Nicole for the idea! The kids went nuts when the web
started to show! Lily and Tristan played upstairs in Lily’s room with the dress
up clothes and blocks for a little bit while I organized all the junk that has
been piling up around my bed. It is so nice to be able to let them play freely
in there for short spurts of time while I straighten up. After nap and lunch, I
have a few more simple projects up my sleeve, like making a ghost out of cotton
balls and gluing to tie up some more loose ends. I am making a taco dip tonight
and I might also let them help out!
Hope everyone has a fun and safe Halloween! I tried to train Lily and Tristan to go for the good candy this year since last year Lily seemed to be attracted to the shiny silver wrapper of the Three Musketeer Bar where as I am more of a Reeses or Twix girl. Here's to gaining a few pounds and making a few memories this weekend!